{"id":28838,"date":"2011-10-27T22:00:51","date_gmt":"2011-10-28T05:00:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/?p=28838"},"modified":"2011-10-27T21:52:34","modified_gmt":"2011-10-28T04:52:34","slug":"50dmc-36-most-uncomfortable-date-movie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/blog\/2011\/10\/50dmc-36-most-uncomfortable-date-movie\/","title":{"rendered":"50DMC #36: Most Uncomfortable Date Movie"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/10\/In-the-Realm-of-the-Senses.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"In-the-Realm-of-the-Senses\" width=\"550\" height=\"242\" class=\"centered size-full wp-image-28995\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/10\/In-the-Realm-of-the-Senses.jpg 550w, https:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/10\/In-the-Realm-of-the-Senses-290x128.jpg 290w, https:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/10\/In-the-Realm-of-the-Senses-300x132.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/10\/In-the-Realm-of-the-Senses-454x200.jpg 454w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 550px) 100vw, 550px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>The 50 Day Movie Challenge asks one question every day, to be answered by a few paragraphs and a clip, if possible. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/2011\/06\/50-day-movie-challenge\/\">Click here<\/a> for the full list of questions.<\/em> <\/p>\n<p>Today&#8217;s prompt: <b>What&#8217;s the most uncomfortable date movie?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"firstletter\">I<\/span>t actually took me quite a while to think of an answer to this question, because I don&#8217;t really have a good grasp of the concept of a &#8220;date movie.&#8221; A good date movie is whatever both you and your date are interested in seeing. My boyfriend and I are both into a lot of different kinds of film and will go see just about anything, together or apart. I&#8217;ve heard people say they&#8217;d never want to see <em>Blue Valentine<\/em> with their significant other, because of its harsh look at the end of a relationship that started out pretty sunny, but we saw that together only a few months into our relationship, and we both loved it. So yeah.<\/p>\n<p>But I think I found one. And when I ran the basic story of <em>In the Realm of the Senses<\/em> by my boyfriend, he agreed with me that it definitely sounds like a non-date kind of movie. I haven&#8217;t actually seen it, but the gist is this: a rich Japanese man and a maid (formerly a prostitute) begin a relationship at first because he molests her, but soon she is the instigator &#8211; fueled by secrecy and then pure passion and eventually destruction, their relationship moves from purely sexual to sadomasochistic, eventually culminating in the woman cutting off the man&#8217;s member. Sounds like a porno (until the end, anyway), but it&#8217;s a well-regarded art film. But not probably something you want to watch on a date.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s the trailer:<\/p>\n<div class=\"centered\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"550\" height=\"309\" src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/-cA1glfeuSs\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The 50 Day Movie Challenge asks one question every day, to be answered by a few paragraphs and a clip, if possible. Click here for the full list of questions. Today&#8217;s prompt: What&#8217;s the most uncomfortable date movie? It actually took me quite a while to think of an answer to this question, because I [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":28995,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2],"tags":[2145,2292],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/10\/In-the-Realm-of-the-Senses.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":23419,"url":"https:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/blog\/2011\/06\/50-day-movie-challenge\/","url_meta":{"origin":28838,"position":0},"title":"50 Day Movie Challenge","author":"Jandy","date":"June 28, 2011","format":false,"excerpt":"This challenge has been going around on Facebook and a friend is doing it on his blog, too. 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