{"id":30149,"date":"2012-01-09T19:51:26","date_gmt":"2012-01-10T03:51:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/?p=30149"},"modified":"2012-01-09T19:58:29","modified_gmt":"2012-01-10T03:58:29","slug":"love-in-a-parking-garage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/blog\/2012\/01\/love-in-a-parking-garage\/","title":{"rendered":"Love in a&#8230;Parking Garage?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/imagebearersphotography.com\/2012\/01\/jandy-and-jonathan-in-a-parking-garage\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/Jandy-and-Jonathan-in-a-parking-garage.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"Jandy-and-Jonathan-in-a-parking-garage\" width=\"550\" height=\"242\" class=\"centered size-full wp-image-30157\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/Jandy-and-Jonathan-in-a-parking-garage.jpg 550w, https:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/Jandy-and-Jonathan-in-a-parking-garage-290x128.jpg 290w, https:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/Jandy-and-Jonathan-in-a-parking-garage-300x132.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/Jandy-and-Jonathan-in-a-parking-garage-454x200.jpg 454w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 550px) 100vw, 550px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"firstletter\">I<\/span> don&#8217;t post too much solely personal stuff around here, though I do let it seep in a lot when I&#8217;m talking about movies or music or whatever else. This is worth its own post, though. My boyfriend <a href=\"http:\/\/www.jonathan-hardesty.com\">Jonathan<\/a> and I are now engaged, but not for long &#8211; we&#8217;re getting married this Sunday. &#8220;When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible,&#8221; right? (<em>When Harry Met Sally&#8230;<\/em> is one of the few romantic comedies we both actually like.) <\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve never been very good with decisions. It&#8217;s part of my INTJ personality type, I know &#8211; we like to have all the options open and continue gathering data as long as possible. After all, we may find out a piece of data that totally changes what we think and affects that decision. Choosing schools, choosing places to live, choosing where to eat dinner, choosing what movie to rent &#8211; they&#8217;re all things that take me a long time and I second guess myself constantly.<\/p>\n<p>Marrying Jonathan is the easiest decision I&#8217;ve ever made in my life. The idea of NOT being with him is just&#8230;unimaginable. Thankfully he feels the same way! Now Sunday can&#8217;t come fast enough.<\/p>\n<p>Yesterday, our friend and photographer <a href=\"http:\/\/imagebearersphotography.com\">Sarah<\/a> took us out for some engagement photos. In a parking garage. But it fits, because we&#8217;re both city people now, and the parks and fields she often shoots engagement photos in wouldn&#8217;t really fit us. Plus, this particular parking garage has really great mountain backdrops. She was able to find all the cool patches of light seeping through the edges of the garage. An unlikely location, perhaps, but I think it turned out beautifully.<\/p>\n<p>Here are just a few of my favorite shots. Click <a href=\"http:\/\/imagebearersphotography.com\/2012\/01\/jandy-and-jonathan-in-a-parking-garage\/\">here<\/a> or on any of the images to see more at Sarah&#8217;s site.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/imagebearersphotography.com\/2012\/01\/jandy-and-jonathan-in-a-parking-garage\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/Jandy-and-Jonathan-in-a-parking-garage-2.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"Jandy-and-Jonathan-in-a-parking-garage-2\" width=\"550\" height=\"366\" class=\"centered size-full wp-image-30155\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/Jandy-and-Jonathan-in-a-parking-garage-2.jpg 550w, https:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/Jandy-and-Jonathan-in-a-parking-garage-2-192x128.jpg 192w, https:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/Jandy-and-Jonathan-in-a-parking-garage-2-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 550px) 100vw, 550px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/imagebearersphotography.com\/2012\/01\/jandy-and-jonathan-in-a-parking-garage\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/Jandy-and-Jonathan-in-a-parking-garage-3.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"Jandy-and-Jonathan-in-a-parking-garage-3\" width=\"550\" height=\"366\" class=\"centered size-full wp-image-30156\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/Jandy-and-Jonathan-in-a-parking-garage-3.jpg 550w, https:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/Jandy-and-Jonathan-in-a-parking-garage-3-192x128.jpg 192w, https:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/Jandy-and-Jonathan-in-a-parking-garage-3-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 550px) 100vw, 550px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/imagebearersphotography.com\/2012\/01\/jandy-and-jonathan-in-a-parking-garage\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/Jandy-and-Jonathan-in-a-parking-garage-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"Jandy-and-Jonathan-in-a-parking-garage-1\" width=\"550\" height=\"366\" class=\"centered size-full wp-image-30154\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/Jandy-and-Jonathan-in-a-parking-garage-1.jpg 550w, https:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/Jandy-and-Jonathan-in-a-parking-garage-1-192x128.jpg 192w, https:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/Jandy-and-Jonathan-in-a-parking-garage-1-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 550px) 100vw, 550px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"morelink\"><a href=\"http:\/\/imagebearersphotography.com\/2012\/01\/jandy-and-jonathan-in-a-parking-garage\/\">Click here for more!<\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve never been very good with decisions. Marrying Jonathan is the easiest decision I&#8217;ve ever made in my life.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":30157,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[42],"tags":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/Jandy-and-Jonathan-in-a-parking-garage.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":34145,"url":"https:\/\/www.the-frame.com\/blog\/2014\/05\/jonathan-rosenbaum-on-jour-de-fete\/","url_meta":{"origin":30149,"position":0},"title":"Jonathan Rosenbaum on Jour de fete","author":"Jandy","date":"May 20, 2014","format":"quote","excerpt":"\"Jour de fete amounts to a kind of stylistic manifesto as well. 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